Friday, January 1, 2010

2010

My dad and Ben are currently driving our Camry back to NC and so my mom and I celebrated the New Year at about 9:30 with our "bubbly." But yesterday I hurried to make just a typical dinner so I didn't have to eat the traditional new years dinner. Let me explain. Collards are significant because they represent $$$$. However, they also represent fertility, so NO COLLARDS FOR ME, THANKS! So resolution #1 this year is to not get pregnant!

Then my mom and I went to the mall with the babies today to make some returns. At one of the clothing stores a worker asked me when I was due. Great. Just when I thought I was starting to look good again..... so resolution #2: I think I'm going to shoot to lose another 5-10 lbs. And may I just add that I was exchanging clothes because I needed a SMALLER size.... thank you very much.

I have a few personal resolutions, as well and I hope that 2010 is a great year! Happy New Year y'all!

Monday, December 28, 2009

A Southern Merry Christmas

Well Ben and I made it out of Rexburg. It was pretty chaotic because we were sick and had a huge power outage (meaning no light for cleaning for hours) and had to work until literally the last minute to get everything moved out and cleaned. Whoo. And we're alive. I knew that once we were done with the cleaning check the only thing I had to worry about was a day of flying. On our layover in Phoenix we got to see the Olsens!!! I hadn't seen them in two years! Here's a pic of Becca, Sami, Janie, Chrissy, and Jonathan. We love y'all!

Lake Lynn

Feeding the ducks..... unfortunately for the ducks Lily ate her share of the bread we brought.

Sky strolling around the lake....

My little puppy. It's amazing how Lily took over Mia's spot in my life..... anyway she really is chewing on Mia's dog toys. I guess it's a good thing Mia never really played with them....

I am allowed to post this picture because we all know how good-looking they are in real life. But what is Christmas morning without a little bedhead?!?!

Trying to teach Lily how to open presents.... she was always more interested in eating the candy that Santa had left her....

As a joke Preston bought Becca a Snuggie for Christmas. It actually turned out to be a really good gift since Becca ended up getting pretty sick on Christmas day. :(

My little Handsome got a Bumbo chair for Christmas. He likes it but would still rather be held.

I have to add this picture now while Sky's too young to say anything....mwahahaha.... but anyway, Skyler officially gave his wrist a hickey during one of his naps today. BAHAHAHAHA. He hasn't quite figured out how to suck his thumb and he's never taken a binky.... so I guess we might see more of these in the future.... hahaha....
This week has been wonderful and Ben and I can't believe how much peace we feel here. It has been such an eye-opening experience for me to be back in Raleigh. I didn't realize how much I missed NC until I got here (oh Southern hospitality! How I have missed you!) And although I know people are going to believe what they want to believe, I actually didn't make Ben come here. I knew we were supposed to come here but I didn't say anything until Ben knew it on his own. Now that we're here things are happening and we're in the right place. I don't know for how long, but for now we're on track. That has been a wonderful Christmas present of its own. We hope that all y'all had a wonderful Christmas!

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

This Wonderful Time of Year

Well, I believe that it is finally time for me to write again. As Christmas comes nearer, I feel that I need to show my appreciation for all of the wonderful things that have been happening to our little family. As most of you know this has not been the easiest Christmas season for us, but we really have felt that the Lord has poured blessings upon us.

Our families have been the best! We have had so much support and love that it makes everything seem less difficult. We are now in North Carolina and the love that we have felt in the past two days has been amazing. I have known since the day that Heather and I decided to come here that the Lord wants us to be here. With everything happening so smoothly we have no doubt that this is where we need to be for this time in our lives. Sorry mum.

We have grown to love Rexburg. Heather and I have so many good memories and friends in Rexburg that it has been hard to leave. So many friends and people in our ward have been so good to us. When we left Rexburg Saturday morning we both were looking at the beautiful temple and the city that we have called home for the past three years. We are grateful for the outpouring of love that we have received and the memories that we have. We pray that all those who have touched our lives in so many ways will be blessed in this special season of love, that they can feel the joy and love that we have so graciously been given.

I guess in closing I need to share my gratitude for my wife and and my two sweet children. I have been so blessed to have Heather. She is and has always been my biggest support. I know that I will always have her by my side and that she loves me unconditionally. She truely is the greatest thing that has happened in my life.

My children are the frosting on the cake. God has given me the two cutest little people in the world. Lily and Skyler have brought so much joy into our family with their games, dancing, laughing, snuggling, and attitudes. To be honest with you it is hard to put into words the feelings that I have for my family. I am really one of the happiest people I know and it is because of my amazing family.

As this Christmas season comes to a close I hope that we all can look at the wonderful blessings that the Lord has given to us that we can take for granted. In my life it is these small blessings that mean the most and have the biggest impact on my life. All of the Christmas decorations at our house have helped to focus our thoughts on Christ. I pray that we can all remember the Savior and all that has been done for us and never take for granted the love that Christ has for us. I am so grateful for the faith that I have and the joy that comes from knowing that I will never be alone. To know that in every situation I have the Savior, friends, my family, and my wonderful wife to bless my life. There is no better gift than this. I truely have the best gifts that can be found. God bless you all and may you all have a joyful and uplifting Christmas.

Wednesday, December 16, 2009

My Cute Babies

Here are some pictures of the babes and me....

Lily and Skyler tend to sit on me at the same time (it's a good thing I've got my mommy-muscles). And do they sit on Ben at the same time? No, not really. I've seen it a couple of times (I have to add that part in so Ben doesn't get mad at me :) ) but for the most part they just like to chill on me. So maybe that's why you never get your old body back??? So that you can be your babies' squishy couch....

My little Handsome. I swear if I hadn't carried him for 9 months I would really wonder if he was mine..... he looks NOTHING like me.

My little Cherub

Lily looks like quite the brainiac since she's holding a pen and a Sudoku book. I'm just impressed that's she chose a pen and not a pencil.....
Well my next post will probably be when we're in NC. So goodbye Rexburg!!! We love you!

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Congratulations Becca and Preston!!!

So Preston popped the question today and he and Becca are officially engaged!!!! Congrats y'all! We're so excited! As of May 1st, 2010 I'm going to have a new brother!!! Woohoo!!!!

This Week's Adventures


When I woke up this morning and saw that it was snowing I realized that Lily may not have a chance to play in snow for a long time since NC doesn't usually get a ton. So outside we went!









I know a lot of people are going to think I'm crazy but I really will miss the snow here. I HATE the extreme cold but the snow I love. I'll just have to keep reminding myself how much I hate driving on it so that I don't miss it. Rexburg roads, we will not miss you.


I know I'm probably a horrible mom but this picture just makes me laugh. I love how Sky's face is all squished. But I promise that he actually laughs his little head off when Lily climbs into the chair with him.


My new 'do. I did the Locks of Love thing. So I hope I made some little girl's Christmas a little brighter.

There is only one more week until we leave Rexburg. Our apartment keeps getting more and more empty and cleaner (thank you Mr. Clean Magic Erasers, you are a LIFE SAVER!) A friend jokingly asked me a few days ago what I would miss about Rexburg besides their family. It's sad because at the time I could only think of people I would miss and not anything about Rexburg. Now I know that this really has become a home and I will miss it for more reasons. I'll miss the gorgeous temple here and how you can always see Rexburg forever away because of the lighted temple on the hill. I'll miss BYU-Idaho and it will always have a warm place in my heart. I'll miss the little places around Rexburg that Ben and I went to when we were dating. I'll miss being able to brag about how cold it is here. I always laugh when my parents tell me how cold it is in NC when it's in the 40's and it's around -35 here. Haha. I'll miss the security blanket of Rexburg and now I'm going into a world where it's not even normal to be married at 21 let alone have two kids! I'm going to miss the beauty of Idaho. I can laugh at that now because my first thought when I came up here to school was, "this is the ugliest state EVER." But now I've come to appreciate its beauty. I'll miss visiting the ghetto shack we lived in when we were first married. It was the cheapest place around but Ben made it beautiful by planting lilies (my favorite flower) all around the house. It had a tree house and a stream in the backyard and sometimes horses. Idaho has been a wonderful adventure and I really will miss it.

Sunday, December 6, 2009

A Lot of Love


This week has been wonderful. A lot of things have made life so enjoyable. Here are a few examples of what I'm talking about:

  • Lily started laughing like the Count from Sesame Street when I count with her. It is HILARIOUS. She started doing it when my parents were visiting us last weekend and it hasn't stopped!
  • Lily is starting to kiss Sky now! I love being a mom and being able to see their sweetness! Ben and I tell each other everyday how grateful we are to be parents!
  • Today Lily went to nursery for the first time! OK, OK, Ben and I are cheaters and she isn't technically 18 months old until Christmas Eve but she's been ready for nursery for a LONG time. We took her into the classroom and she ran right in to play with the other kids. So Ben and I made our escape quickly and the last thing I saw was her stealing some other kid's snack.... oops. But after church was over her teachers said she was awesome. This is a HUGE blessing because when Ben and I each are in charge of a baby for all of church we don't actually get to hear a lot. Now that we have one baby I'll actually be able to go to all 3 meetings again! YAY!
Lily modeling her toilet paper. :)

Ben and I have a lot to be grateful for. We haven't even really considered moping around that Ben's unemployed because we have so many blessings. We're grateful that we're moving and that my parents are not only letting us come live with them but that they're excited. We're grateful for good friends we've had in Rexburg who have meant so much to us. We're grateful for an awesome doctor who has been my ob/gyn and the babies' pediatrician who charged us way less than we owed him just because he's good guy. And as I was writing this post some random person we don't know knocked on our door and handed us an envelope full of money from an anonymous person. So if that person is reading this post right now you really brought us to tears. Ben and I have been brought to tears so many times this week because we know that although times can be tough we have so much to be grateful for. I really am excited to celebrate this Christmas. I decided a while ago that this year I really wanted my focus on giving to the Lord and I can already see a difference in the beauty of this time of year. So Happy Holidays Y'all! It really is the best time of the year!